
I never wondered what it would be like to be a man until I was in high school. As I grew up, I wanted EVERYTHING to be girly, but when I got to high school, everything changed. I wanted to know why guys got away with more than girls, I liked how they seemed to have alot more fun...etc. I even decided that I wanted to eventually have all male children (don't feel quite that way now). Yes, I would take the opportunity to be a male for a day, just to see how I may have "stereotyped" males the wrong way. As far as looks go, I would be tall, somewhat muscular and have blue eyes. Also, I would have a very deep voice.
the thought has crossed my mind, the major question being if I was born a boy would any of my life choices been different? would I have the same friends? would I still be heterosexual? would I have the same hobbies? I guess it goes into the whole nature vs nurture argument. so the answer is some of my base idealogies would probably remain the same, but because of the experiences that I would experience in that situation I would be molded into a different person.
now if I had the opportunity to be a boy for a day I would definitely take it. there are just some things I would like to experience some things that only I could truly understand if I actually had done them. one of the major ones being kicked in the balls just to understand the "pain" it causes. the other experience is a little more adult oriented just so could better understand sexuality
When I was a kid I wished I was a boy sometimes because it looked a lot easier than being a girl and it seemed boys were given more freedom to do what they wanted. This seems to be a common misconception of childhood among the girls. As I became older, I figured out that this wasn't necessarily true. I'm not aggressive enough to make even the wimpiest man so I would be pretty bad at it. I wouldn't want to try it, even for a day. If I were to try it I would use the day to build up the confidence, self-esteem, and pride in the weaker sex. (heh heh) As a man, I would be irritated by the over emotionalism and self-destructiveness of weak women and would seek out women with intelligence and a mind of their own. Looks wouldn't matter very much, as long as the women was healthy both physically and mentally. I would be a very intelligent man, but not a showoff or a bully.
Ever since young, I've pretty much wanted to be a guy because I really hated wearing dresses. I don't like frilly frilly stuff and never thought of putting make up. But, as I grew older, I realised that I liked being a girl much better. I'm concerned with how I look overall but I don't really dress up a lot. But certainly I'm a female at heart... I wouldn't really want to be a guy for one day because I'm afraid that if I'm a guy, I would accidently hurt someone with insensitive words.(Okay, I'm not being a sexist here..but I think that girls are much more sensitive than most guys)
I never really had a desire to be a lady nor fantasized about it. Guess I was just happy with what I was. If I was born a girl I know what I would have looked like and acted like as my second oldest sister and I could almost pass as twins! She is very tomboy and we always hung out together though she was 6 years older than me.