
No, I'm not dressed as a woman. No offense taken. I used to have long hair and people bothered me alot in school about it, so I eventually cut it. Some people thought I was gay and I got picked on because of it. Normally, I'm kindof an eccentric-artsy type person, but have changed a little over the years.
When I first checked out this kind of topic and read all posted messages, I thought..well..that sort of fantasies have never bothered me. But on the second thought I did try to realise what's it like-being a woman. Could be really hard in some cultures. What's about my own? I'm looking at my wife taking care about loads of stuff-home, kids, meal at the table to get through the every single day and at the same time trying maintain her her own career. Being a woman...What about being a married woman with two kids and husband who's always away, because of his job...Must be tough. Even for curiosity sake, am I sure I want a day trial test?
I am very much female, but before I hit puberty, I was chestless and would dress to emphasize it. I pretended I was a pretty faced guy(bishounen!), which worked. I think that guys naturally have more ease. I see my male counterpart with the same woman's face and long hair- just chestless and wearing open white button shirts and sport coats and jeans all the time.
Heh, I would also flirt more as a guy. Gemini is a masculine sign and I play it to the tee for my weird girly self.
I have never imagined what it would be like to be a man. I was never a tom boy and I really like being a woman. The only thing I don't like is wearing dresses, which I almost never do. The only part about being a man that would appeal to me is that when they get angry people take them seriously. I can't count the number of times in the past when I've been really mad and some guy will roll his eyes and say "Oh God, PMS again!" At those times I have wished I was a man so I could punch the guys lights out.
Interesting thread!
First, as a man, I do not fit the expected male stereotype in many ways, and I am fine with that. Even among the men with whom I associate in the school of music, I am never quite 'one of the guys.' For example, I may notice beautiful women, but I never feel comfortable talking about them with other guys, although the topic is quite common in their conversations. When it comes to locker room talk, team sports, cars, movies, beer, South Park, or popular music, I am not actively involved in the dialogue. I enjoy staying on the periphery.
Considering that aspect of my personality, I would be miserable as a woman. As a reserved, unusual guy, I have a certain attraction, and I am somewhat renowned among those who know me. However, the same personality traits [read: psychoses] that make me seem interesting as a man would make a woman seem antisocial and unapproachable. In fact, being a woman in general would be maddening because of the double standard: many guys say they want to date smart women, but they only ask out the ditzy hot ones. These guys give the rest of us a bad reputation! The truth is, most of us are intimidated by women who are more competent than we are.
Also, I would never survive as a woman because I have no patience for cosmetics or tights. I have used both, but only for drama.
It seams that more women are thinking about this then men...I know that I would be an a** kicking lady, sexy but tough, practice a lot of sports and rule the world of men becouse I now every secret they have
Yes I have imagined what it would be like to be a guy, but no I've never wanted to be one. I think women in the U.S. have it made!
If I was to be a guy for a day I'd want to be a manly man to really get the full effect. I would still have long hair but I would want to be big and muscular with a strong jaw, goatee and a hairy chest.
I'd spend the day riding around on a Harley, or dress up in period warrior garb and go "sword" fight at a SCA event.
If I had the chance to be a women I would, I have always wondered what it was like in a woman's shoes. I believe I would be a lot more emotional than I am now or maybe it has nothing to do with it and I wouldn't change I would just act differently. Like in example; I would dress up more or worry more how some one sees me more. As of yet I have no idea.