How Can I Move Past This- A Question for Staff

How Can I Move Past This- A Question for Staff

How Can I Move Past This- A Question for Staff


1. How long have you been together 8 yrs 2. What is your age range 40-45 3. Please share your story: I had posted a question earlier titled, "How do I move past this" Staff advised me that what I was in was an abusive relationship and that I couldn't heal as long as I was in this relationship. I thought I could forgive my husband for his repeated infidelities, but I can't. I have discovered that I have no self esteem whatsoever and continue to have horrid flashbacks. I want to leave him. There in lies the problem. He is the sole bread winner of the family. I stay at home with our three children ages 17, 11 (and low functioning autistic) and 2. I have recurring ovarian cancer. How do I leave him Where can I go I am lost. I find myself wishing the cancer would just kill me so I wont be trapped anymore. I love him, but I have come to realize this will not work anymore. I need to get out for my daughters and I need to get out for me. But how I don't know how.
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