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Offended - Community News, FAQ, Feedback - Posted: 9th Jan, 2005 - 8:12pm
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I just wanted to mention that once everyone sticks within the guidelines of the community it is impossible to be offended, and if anyone is I believe it is because they are either overly sensitive or need to take a look at our Constructive Posting Policy instead.
Of late the topic of being offended has been discussed in various forms and fashions. To put a stop to these little disruptions I have taken the time to post a long detailed message that should dispell any misunderstandings and give affirmative action for both the offender and offended. See here:
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Post Date: 9th Jan, 2005 - 6:52pm / Post ID: #
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I disagree, JB. There have been several times where I have posted something on a personal level, or something that I spend awhile formulating within my mind to have somebody express their opinion in a rude and thoughtless way. I'm sorry if this sounds out of bounds, but, to be truthful, that's one reason I haven't been posting here as much lately. I'm tired of trying to be positive, and get so much negativity back.
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| ...somebody express their opinion in a rude and thoughtless way. |
Can you Email me your thoughts and link to it?
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| I'm tired of trying to be positive, and get so much negativity back. |
Why did you not express this in your intro thread, report it to a mod or reply saying that you thought the reply was offensive?
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| There have been several times where I have posted something on a personal level, or something that I spend awhile formulating within my mind to have somebody express their opinion in a rude and thoughtless way. I'm sorry if this sounds out of bounds, but, to be truthful, that's one reason I haven't been posting here as much lately |
Rude and thoughtless way?. Wow, I read all your posts and replies and I haven't seen anyone being rude to you. Some people are just matter of fact but I do not consider that as rude, also there are members who strongly disagree with a certain point we may share and I actually think it help us all to learn other perspectives.
Why you did not say anything about it? I thought that what you liked more about the forum was the way we 'talk' to each other.
Post Date: 9th Jan, 2005 - 7:41pm / Post ID: #
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What one person may not find offensive, another person might. I didn't say anything about it because everytime I have felt myself get offended by somebody's reply, it's always been a mod.
Not all of it is offensive or rude, but sometimes it just gets old when I post something, and I see somebody's name in the reply box, and I know without a shadow of a doubt it's a negative response. If I wanted to constantly read people being negative about every issue, I would keep all my posts for an RPG where the median age is 15.
Plus, it's not hard to feel ganged up on. If I post an opinion one way, and then have four people respond in a "matter of fact" way, as it was put, it leads one to feel ganged up on, especially when they're all mods.
It's not that big of a deal to me. It's kept me from settling in like I would have hoped to, but I have my RPG for that. I was here for the RPG, and now that I've gotten up to that status, that's what I'm focusing on.
I do agree that it's important to get different perspectives, but I guess I'm just used to thinking about how I say things because I am so used to working with teenagers. I think about how, if I were on the other end of what I was saying, how I would perceive that. That's a courtesy I use because, especially being on the computer, you can't depict somebody's attitude. So I try to make sure my usage of words can't be misinterpreted to being rude.
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Well I think you have inspired me to start a thread in the FAQ board about this, since it seems to be a popular scenario of late, but I still am awaiting (by Email) for the link so I can see an example of what you are talking about. In this way I can see if your perspective is correct or just opinionated.
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Ambria, the thread is not about 'Did Mods Offend You', the point is you are saying that there were users that were both rude and offensive, I want to see this thread for myself so I can ascertain the problem. Like I said before. Send me an Email. If you do not send an Email about the link then I will take it that you are not really offended simply because the users that replied are not Mods.
| Offtopic but, Users that are Mods belong to the Group called, 'Mods', you can see this in their posts right under their avatar. |
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